First off, you have to understand that all guys have a thought in the back of their heads that any guy could take you away. He loves you and I'm sure you love him too. But sometimes it isn't that easy. Now he has more to worry about. He feels like he has to worry about guys and girls! You really should look at it through his point of view. At least understand the reasoning behind his feelings. But that does not justify the way he's making you feel. I'm sure you feel that this is threatening your relationship...and it could be. But if he doesn't love you for you then I don't think it is the kind of relationship that can withstand time. I don't know if his feelings towards this situation are personal opinions, or religions ones. But if you two can't get past this, it wont work out. You have to tell him that it's something you cant control. You cannot control the feelings you have towards a person or gender. You need to reassure him that you love him. But sometimes reassuring him too much will take a toll on you and you will want to stop trying. I know you love him, but if he can't take the good with the bad, you wont last. Ask yourself: "Is marrying him really worth the pain?"
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