So there is a guy... we are close friends, and he has been really touchy. Like he is a joking guy and makes a lot of sexual comments. But when I was going home sick he offered to take me to the office with my other guy friend and he held my hand. He flirts with my quite a bit and I am so confused... He seems to like me, but then the other day he got dared to push another girl for 5 bucks and he agreed... I had to watch and I don't even know anymore. He tryed to kiss me of the forehead the other day and he has held my hand twice in the last couple of days. What do you think? Does he like me? Should I go for it or just wait?
I don't know about you...but I do not respect guys who o things like that. By the looks of it, he's insecure and looking for a way for his friends to think he's cool. And there's nothing wrong with that, but do you really want to date a guy who pushed another girl? He clearly doesn't respect girls. That's something you see in an elementary school yard. If you really like him then go for it. But talk to him about what happened. if he likes you and is willing to date you, then tell him he can't do anything like that again. Make sure he understands this. And yes. he does like you. Guys don't just hold your hand for anything. But you also have to think...if his friends dared him to push a girl, what makes you think that they didn't dare him to date you as a joke. I've seen it before. I don't know the kid but from your description, I have a bad feeling about it all.
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