for one, you are aprox. 14 years old. if a guy cheats on you then obviously leave him. its way too early in life to dwell on a relationship that is clearly heading towards a destructive past. now i may seem like a hypocrite about this situation because ive been in this situation before. i was constantly cheated on, lied to and hurt by the same person and that lasted about a year on and off.
if it wasn’t for my current (amazing) bf & (amazing) friends, then id probably still be hung up over something that i should have immediately ended. i was 15 at the time. what i considered my first real relationship and its something i regret. but if i never had that experience then i wouldn’t appreciate the relationship i have now. my advice in this entry is to get rid of a person at early warning signs. save yourself the heartache. people dont change. they only attempt to lie better (for the most part). but chances are, if you know me or follow me on tumblr than we are probably apart of the same peer group. all i have to say is that you are young and you can do better. don’t limit yourself to one person if they do nothing but hurt you and put you through pure agony over and over again.
you should never think that you cant do better because leaving them is the first step to happiness. the exact same day i dumped him, i started talking to my current boyfriend. we were lon distance for an entire year before i saw him for the first time. don’t get me wrong…there was pain in this relationship. nothing compares to that incredibly long wait. but at least i trusted him, loved him and believed our relationship whole heartedly. today we have been together for about a year and a half and currently live together. hes the most amazing thing that has happened to me.
im not saying regret the bad relationships you have…im saying truly learn from them. every relationship, good or bad, has its lesson. from that terrible relationship i learned to speak my mind and to respect myself.
if i never dated that ass, i wouldn’t have met my current boyfriend. i wouldn’t have a reason to talk to him. we began dated because i needed someone to get my mind off the pain. now he’s the person i want to spend the rest of my life with.